Change

To try to change another person is fruitless. However, your RESPONSE and ATTITUDE towards that person can change and that will provide them with tools to change them-self. You need to develop an understanding of the person and their feelings. Seeing through the other person's eyes to view things from their perspective and gaining an understanding of their feelings, requires a capacity for EMPATHY.

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