Is it possibly you can be religious and still not in relationship with God?
All the layers of morality and religiosity people are clothed in.
All the years of studying and training to know about spiritual things so you can teach them to others.
All the accumulated religious prejudice and pride that religions pride themselves in not having.
All the reasoning and rationalizing as to why your denomination is the right one.
All the neatly compartmentalized preconceptions and presumptions you have about Jesus and the Godhead, does not constitute a right relationship with God!