Fruit of the Spirit.
The fruit of the Spirit is not a list of things we are to strive to do...be loving, get more patience, strive to be kind, but forth a gentle spirit, force yourself to have self-control, work at being faithful, suffer to be long suffering. It is the fruit of the Spirit not the fruit of human effort. Jesus is the vine, we are the branches. Branches don't strive to produce fruit, the life of the vine is the life in the branches, it is the life of the vine that produces fruit through the branches.