God so loved the people of the world, He gave His only Son....
God so loved us...His Son laid down His life for us...to give His life to us...so He could live His life through us as His Community of the Redeemed, expressing His life in the Community of Humanity.
Grace is God's love for us enabling us to love God, resulting in total dependance upon God and the finished work of Christ, resulting in obedience to God.
That is Grace...That is Faith...That is Love...That is the GOSPEL!
If the obedience you give to God is not Grace obedience...it is fleshly self-obedience where you are trying to gain God's approval and favor, and that is disobedience to God's way of obeying Him.